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Friends with an old crush

Mate 1

My BF is still “best friends” with a girl he used to like (but she told him she just wants to be friends.) He is constantly texting her, going over to hang out one on one,and they even took a nap together! (separate beds)I think she keeps him around for the attention and I don’t want them hanging out so frequently. Is it fair that I ask him to see her less?

Mate 2

My BF says he doesn’t want to ignore a friend simply because I am uncomfortable with their relationship. He has never cheated and is always honest about when they hang out so he doesn’t see a problem. He told me he won’t stop constantly texting/calling her because she is a close friend.

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	Marty Girl Friend.. He’s banging the head board, OFTEN… MEN ARE DAWGS… 20 days ago
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Jessica

Honestly, there is nothing that is appropriate about his behavior. In a relationship, it is completely inappropriate to hang out one on one with another girl (and it would be just as inappropriate for you to hang out with another guy one on one). It is absolutely fair that you ask for them not to hang out so much and if he’s not willing to give her up, then it’s time to leave. You shouldn’t ever take a backseat to another girl and quite frankly, it sounds like he’s still in high school and needs to grow up.

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ellianna

Hello dear
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	will I have a “best friend” of over 20 years and when we get together once or twice A YEAR we get romantic. nuff ssid. 2 months ago
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