How often are you “away” and for how long. You know, she could very easily lie to you, which to me would be the better solution since you are making “nancy” over it about “our” bed. If you trust she’s not cheating, and you are only college students, where is the problem. Trust me…this “doesn’t feel ours” mentality makes you sound insecure in your relationship. So which is it? The majority are girls or every now and then it is a good friend of hers/yours/both? You really need to suck it up if you are so confident she isn’t cheating. FYI…sleeping on a couch…I don’t think so. you have two positions you can sleep in and both are uncomfortable, and the couch is never long or wide enough. Sounds like to me there is more going on here for m2 and he’s not willing to go there. You are in college and it doesn’t sound like you have an eternal lasting relationship. You can cut it short be giving her an ultimatium, which leads to break up or lieing. Choose one and live with it. I personally have had guys sleep over because we had a late night out drinking and there was no way i was having anyone, male or female drive. And not once did anything sexually happen. THEY WERE MY FRIENDS!

If you are not there, who cares! Don’t be so controlling.

Dude… she’s bang crazy and you know it… check her for fleas and ticks